[on Touch Me Not (2018), psychology, psychoanalysis and therapy] The film is not a book on psychology and Freud [Sigmund Freud] is not the only one who looked at this connection between childhood and your further relationships. This idea is explored in most psychological approaches. What had more impact in this research is another book by Michael Bader, called "Arousal". He explores the effects of our sexual behavior as a key to understanding the deeper self. If you look at an S&M relationship, there's a power dynamic. If you experience these drives, first of all you might judge yourself, but if you look with honesty to what that means; why do you have to be controlled by someone? Why do you have to give up responsibility? If you look at this stuff and dig down, you might realize things about yourself that are not necessarily connected to sexuality but to other blockages from the past. Looking into our sexual behaviors is a mirror of ourselves. You don't judge yourself or others as much. Seani [Seani Love] - our colleague - we have a character in the film that deals with that. Seani-therapy is a mix of escort and psychotherapist. He explores Laura's [Laura Benson] borders and anger issues. This guy has the same approach as Michael Bader, looking into your sexual fantasies, preference, needs and trying to understand what is behind that. How can you be helped to free yourself from these blockages? Neither of these methods looks at it as some sort of disease more of an imbalance that you are confronted with at a certain point that you can regulate. [Feb.2018]
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